7 Keys of Confidence ~ What are you avoiding? (video)

  Do you ever find yourself procrastinating or putting things off? Ever asked yourself why? Procrastination is something that comes up with my clients time and time again. When we know we are putting things off, it blocks our confidence and makes us feel unworthy. But until we really understand how our reasons, excuses or justifications…

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7 Keys of Confidence ~ Opening to possibilities

  We live in a culture where clarity and certainty is favoured over ambiguity and vagueness. Sounds innocent enough right? But what if that need for certainty was a block to your confidence? What if instead it created rigidity and limitations that prevent the growth of the feelings you most want? I discovered this for…

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Brave and Courageous… Really?

  There have been a number of words used to describe me, in the last four years specifically, that have baffled me. Baffled as to why they were being used towards me, when I believed I was ‘just being me’ and doing what I thought need to be done, even though I may have been…

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7 Keys of Confidence ~ Blame & Responsibility (video)

  Earlier this year, I held a mini Facebook Live Training on the 7 Keys of Confidence. Each day for a week, I shared one of the locks that keep us feeling uncomfortable and dissatisfied in life and gave a key for unlocking more confidence and self-worth. If you missed it, don’t worry because for the next…

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What did you want to be when you grew up? ~ Carly’s story

  When I first got in touch with Jules I was in a good job with a good salary. I wasn’t bored, but I didn’t love it either. I felt I needed something more but I didn’t know what. I found myself feeling regularly anxious at work and unconfident regarding my skills. I was losing…

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Confidence Killers #8: Self-criticism (video)

  In this video series on Confidence Killers, I describe the many ways in which we cripple our self-confidence. Self-criticism is one of the most negative things we can do. In fact, when we consistently put down or berate ourselves for making poor choices and decisions, it is really a form of self-abuse. One of…

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Stories to inspire: Does the jacket fit? (video)

  I was recently working with a client on the topic of beliefs. We were discussing how we can get stuck with outdated or unhelpful beliefs that may not have been ours to begin with! She shared that she had recently been through a ‘personal shopping’ experience. The story so closely fitted with the subject…

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Confidence Killers #7: Selfies (video)

  Are you one of the people who regularly posts selfies on social media? Do you find yourself adjusting the angle or adding filters to make sure you look as good as possible? What if I told you that instead of making you feel good, selfies can actually undermine your confidence? Why? Because at the…

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Stories to inspire: Things aren’t always as they seem (video)

What if things in your life weren’t always exactly how they seemed? What if there was an alternative perception waiting to be discovered? What if things that seemed scary, really weren’t at all? In this video, I share the story of a trip to France and when an experience showed me how what we see…

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Confidence Killers #6: Control (video)

Today we return to the confidence killers video series, and it is a biggie… Control! Do you ever find yourself trying to make a conversation go your way or forcing life events to line up so your day works out the way you want? Guiding and forcing things may not seem like a problem but…

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