Don’t believe the hype of your assumptions

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  You may have heard the saying that when you ASSUME you make an ASS out of U and ME. It’s definitely a helpful way of remember the power of assumptions. But I am not sure it goes far enough. Recent experiences have highlighted to me that making assumptions can be damaging, dangerous and potentially…

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How to avoid being arrogant (video)

  In this video (recorded as part of a confidence conversation Live on Facebook), I explain what arrogance really is. I share some of the behaviours associated with arrogance and why they are so often a mask for what is really going on. When we develop our confidence, we don’t have to fear becoming arrogant.…

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Dealing with a confidence nose dive ~ Sally’s story

  What a day with Jules can do! I always thought I had a good level of self-confidence. I am an approachable person with a great circle of friends and family around me. What’s not to feel confident about?! However, when entering a business networking event after having a break with networking for a few…

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What is your perception of confidence? (video)

  What is your relationship with confidence? Actually, before you answer that, let me ask you a different question … what do you think of confident people? In fact, the answer to the second question can be very revealing about the first. Imagine you are in a group situation – maybe a classroom or conference…

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What if you knew you would work it out?

  In my book ‘If We Can, You can.’ I share 3 true life events that had a significant impact on me, whether I realised it at the time or not. These events planted seeds of possibility for me that continue to germinate to this day but only when the conditions are right. I was reminded…

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The 10 Biggest Mistakes I Made About Confidence

  Have you ever listened to someone talk about confidence and thought – well it’s OK for them, they have it sorted? I used to, especially when I first started investing in and focusing on developing myself. And it is easy to do when the person doing the teaching seems to have it altogether. That’s…

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Get Results! Get Confidence!!

  Get Results! Get Confidence!! That’s the message that is often shared about confidence; Just go for it Push yourself Force yourself out of your comfort zone And it’s partially true… But it is not the whole story. Perhaps pushing yourself and going for it will help you to realise that you can… Do the job…

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The Next Steps

There are times that I forget how much life has changed, where I started from as a self-doubting worrier to where I am now…comfortable in my own skin and experiencing genuine confidence. Thankfully I have a few events that help me remember. One of which was 15 years ago, nearly to the day, so to…

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Why I am fortunate not lucky (video)

In my line of work, I regularly get told that I am lucky. I get that it might seem that way. After all, I have a good quality of life and do work that lights me up. Last year, I even won a competition for a week’s retreat in Spain. But I do have an…

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Inspiring Men – Mike’s Story

  When I first spoke to Jules we didn’t get on. Here was a confident, successful, intelligent, passionate woman; so being a man in my mid 30s I took this as a personal challenge and a one-sided competition ensued. One I should add I wasn’t even aware I was having, such was my self-awareness at…

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